Ibyerekana ko umukobwa arimo gusaba umusore ko bakora imibona1no
Hafi ku isi yose bazi ko umukobwa cyangwa umugore adapfa gutinyuka gusaba umusore ko bakora imibonano ibi bigatuma hari na bamwe bahohoterwa kuko abagabo benshi bishyiramo ko niyo umukobwa yaba yahakanye ku munwa muri we aba yemeye. Nyamara hari ibimenyetso bishobora kwerekana ko umukobwa cyangwa umugore yifuza gukora iki gikorwa akaba ari byo Iwacumarket igiye kukugezaho uyu munsi.
6. Usanga yitoratoza ku bikorwa biganisha ku mibonano: Aha ni nko kukoherereza amafoto ye cg y'abandi bakobwa ubona ko ashotorana cyane, cg akayakwereka igihe muri kumwe, no gutangiza ibiganiro bisa n'aho biganisha muri iyo nzira kenshi ashaka kumenya ibyo ukunda n'ibyo wanga mu buriri, ibigushimisha n'ibindi kugirango nyineza amenye uko azitwara igihe muzaba mukoze icyo gikorwa.
5. Amera nk'ugukoraho iperereza: Aha usanga atangira kukubaza igihe uba utuje, igihe mushobora kuba mwamarana igihe nta muntu ubarogoye, kumenya niba uba wenyine, ese ugera mu rugo ryari, agashaka kumenya ibyo ukunda ku buryo yaza kubigukorera muri uwo mwanya mwaba muri mwenyine, agatangira kukubwira ko hari ibintu azi gukora bigushimisha, urugero niba aziko ukunda ifi, atangira kukubaza niba ubizi ko azi guteka ifi...
4. Agerageza kukwiharira umwanya munini ushoboka: Umukobwa ushaka kuguha agerageza kuba kumwe nawe umwanya munini ntawe ubarogoye kandi akakwereka ko yiteguye kuba yagukorera ibintu byose wamusaba.
3. Ababya kugushimagiza n'aho atari ngombwa cyane cyane aganisha ku bikugaragaraho bikurura abakobwa: Agatangira akagutaka ku mikorere yawe, imiterere yawe, kenshi ugasanga arashimagiza imyanya yawe ikurura abakobwa kugirango akumvishe ko akwemera nyine, akagera naho akwibutsa ko agukunda cyane, ashobora no kukubwira ko ntacyo wamusaba ngo akikwime, kugerageza kukwibutsa ibihe byiza mwagiranye niba warigeze nko kumusoma akabikwibutsa akakubwira ukuntu byari byiza cyane... nyine agerageza uburyo ki agenda agushyushya agushyushya.
2. Agusoma byimbitse kandi ari we ubwe ubitangije: Haba nk'ubwo waba umuherekeje mwagera nk'ahantu aba ugiye kumusezeraho agasa nk'ukwibye akagusoma byimbitse kandi bimara akanya ku buryo aramutse ari ahantu hatuje mushobora kwisanga mwateye akabariro.
1. Kukwereka ko agukeneye ndetse ko yashize: Agerageza kukwegera cyane, wamureba ukabona ameze nk'uwarembye ukuntu, ukabona ko intege zacitse, gutangira kugukorakoraho ukuntu.
Ikitonderwa: Hari ushobora kubikora gutya ariko atari agambiriye gukora imibonano. Kugirango ubimenye iyo akoze ibi bimenyetso ugerageza kumusubiza na we ukaba wamukorakora uganisha ku myanya y'ibanga nk'amabere... Uko yakiriye iki gisubizo cyawe ni byo bizakwereka ko yifuza cyangwa atifuza ko ko mutera akabariro bityo nawe umenye uko ubyitwaramo.