Buri gihe ujye wibuka, ni "utuntu duto" ukora kenshi n' "ibintu binini" ukora rimwe na rimwe bitanga inyungu nyinshi ku ishoramari muri Konti yawe y'urukundo!
Ubu buhanga n'inama bizakora mu buryo bw'imibanire kandi rwose bizamufasha kongera kugukunda byimazeyo.
1. Mutege amatwi
Abagore bakunda umugabo utega amatwi ibibazo byabo n'ibibazo byabo n'ibyifuzo atiriwe akosora. Iyo ushyikirana nawe, uba uri imbere y'intambwe imwe. Fungura ibitekerezo kandi muganire ku buryo butandukanye.
Ugomba gutanga inama gusa iyo abisabye gusa. Gerageza kumufungurira amarembo y'ibiganiro kandi byuje urukundo.
Namara kumenya imbaraga z'itumanaho umuha, azagukunda birenze.
2. Mushimire
Umuntu wese akunda gushimwa, ariko abagore cyane cyane bakunda kumva umukunzi wabo abashimira ntabwo ari kumunsi w'amavuko, isabukuru, n'umunsi w'abakundana gusa. Gushimwa bigomba kuba bivuye ku mutima, kuba inyangamugayo, no mu buryo butaziguye.
Mugihe umushimira ibyo yakoze cyangwa se uko asa, ntugakabye. Kurenza urugero mu gushima birashobora kukugirira nabi, bikavamo kwangwa. Rero, kora uko bikwiye kandi kenshi.
3. Ntugakabye kugira isoni(kuba ikijumba)
Iki ni cyo gihe cyiza cyo kumwitaho no kugikomeza. Gerageza kumwitaho ndetse n'igihe muri mu bandi.
Utuntu duto nko kumukingurira urugi, kumukiza utwanda cyangwa utwatsi twamuguyeho, kumuhanagura se, cyangwa kumuha ikoti ryawe mu gihe cy'ubukonje bizamutera kumva akunzwe kandi yitaweho mu buryo budasanzwe.
Iyo amenye uburemere bw'icyubahiro umufitiye mu mutima wawe, azarushaho kugukunda birenze.
4. Shigikira imyanzuro ye
Twese twifuza kumvwa no gushyigikirwa n'umukunzi wacu kuko ari intambwe y'ingenzi yo kwizerana, guhuza no gukundana by'ukuri. Byaba ari ibintu byoroshye nko gufasha mu mirimo ya buri munsi cyangwa akazi cyangwa ikindi kintu cy'ingenzi nkumwuga we, ube uhari rwose ufite ibitekerezo byuzuye.
Gushyigikira ibyemezo ntibisobanura kwemera ibyo avuga byose. Ugomba gutekereza binyuze mu byemezo bye, kandi ukavuga neza uko ubifata. Ugomba gushyigikira ibyemezo bye ukamwubaha kandi ukamwizera. Ibi bikora ibitangaza mu rukundo.
5. Mubwire Ukuntu Umukunda
Ntukagire isoni ni urukundo rwawe. Kenshi na kenshi "dutekereza" tuzi ko mugenzi wacu adukunda gusa kuba duhari. Ibikorwa bivuga cyane kuruta amagambo, ariko mu byukuri ubwira umukunzi wawe uko umukunda bizamutera gukundana cyane.
6. Muhe umwanya
Kumarana umwanya "mwiza" n'umukunzi wawe ni bumwe mu buryo bukomeye bwo kongera icyifuzo no gutuma agukunda cyane. Shakisha ibintu bishya n'ibikorwa byo gusangira hamwe. Mu gihe uvugana na we, shyira terefone yawe ku ruhande kandi ube uhari rwose.
7. Gaburira Urukundo rwanyu
Ntutegereze ibihe bidasanzwe (Isabukuru, Isabukuru, Umunsi w'abakundana, nibindi) kugirango uvomerere urukundo rwawe. Muhe indabyo kugirango umushimishe. musohokane umutunguye. Mubwire icyo asobanuye kuri wowe kandi ukomeze kumwereka uburyo ari udasanzwe kuri wowe.
8. Kugaragara neza
Usibye ingeso nziza zose, abagore bakururwa n'umugabo mwiza. Ugomba kwitegura gato, ukareba verisiyo nziza yawe wenyine. Ugomba kwambara imyenda myiza, ibirahure byiza, amasaha y'ubwenge, n'inkweto nziza. Iyo ugaragara neza kandi ukishimira isura yawe, umukobwa wawe azarushaho kugukunda kuko azaba abona ko uri umusirimu kandi usobanutse.
9. Ibitekerezo byiza by'umunsi
Mu gihe ugerageza tekinike zose zavuzwe haruguru, ugomba gutegura no gusangira nawe ibintu bitangaje. Abagore bakunda gutoneshwa. Urashobora gushakisha ibitekerezo byinshi bitangaje bijyanye no gutereta no kurambagiza, kandi ukishimira kumarana umwanya mwiza hamwe na we. Gukora ibintu bishya hamwe byongera ubwiza bwimibanire yawe na we.
10. Ishimishe kandi unezerwe
Ntamuntu ushimishwa no kuba hafi. Iyo urekuye inkuta zawe, bituma umugore wawe yinjira mwisi yawe. Shakisha umunezero mu buzima ubona icyiza n'ikibi. Hitamo "kwishimira kuba umukiranutsi" mumibanire yawe kandi urebe urukundo rutera imbere! Ntakintu na kimwe gishimisha umugore nko kubona akundana n'umugabo wifitiye ikizere, w'umunyabwenge, wiyitaho, kandi wishimye akanashimisha abandi.
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