Kugira ngo urugo rube rwiza kandi rukomeye, bisaba ko abashakanye bagira umubano mwiza mu bice byose by’ubuzima, harimo no mu rukundo rw’abashakanye.
Mu bijyanye no kwiyubakira urukundo rukomeye, bamwe bishimira kuba abayobozi mu buryo bwo kwereka urukundo rwabo. Dore ibintu by’ingenzi wakora niba wifuza kuba intangarugero mu buriri, byose bigamije kuzamura umubano mwiza n’umutekano wanyu mwembi. Ibi bireba abashakanye ntibereba abatari bashakana
1. Bikore ubishaka
Umuntu ntakwiye kuba intangarugero mu rukundo kubera igitutu cya mugenzi we. Ni ngombwa kubanza kwiyumva neza muri uwo mwanya no kubikora ubikunze. Iyo bikozwe ku gahato, bishobora guteza ibibazo aho gutanga ibyishimo.
2. Muganire mbere
Uburyo bwo kuba intangarugero bugomba gutegurwa neza. Ni ngombwa kuganira mbere, mukemeranya ibyo mwifuza kugeraho n’ibyo mutishimira. Ibi bigamije kurinda impande zombi kugira ibyo zibona bidasanzwe.
3. Inzego eshatu zo kuba intangarugero
Hari inzego eshatu zigaragaza uko umuntu ashobora kuba intangarugero mu rukundo:
Uburyo bworoshye: Bukubiyemo ibintu byoroheje nko gukoresha amagambo meza, kumwegera, cyangwa gukora ku bice runaka by’umubiri mu buryo butuje.
Yobora: Hari ibyo ushobora kongeraho nk’ibikoresho byoroshye nko gukina imikino iryoshye kandi ishimishije.
Urwego rukomeye: Uru rwego rukeneye ubushishozi n’ibiganiro byinshi mbere yo kurugeraho. Harimo imikino ikomeye, gukoresha imigozi, n’ibindi bikorwa bisaba ubushake buhambaye ku mpande zombi.
4. Fata umwanya wo kuba intangarugero
Kugira ngo ube intangarugero mwiza ntibihita biza ku munsi umwe. Bisaba kwiga no kumenya icyo wowe n’uwo mubana mwishimira. Ntugashyireho igitutu cyo gushaka kuba mwiza ako kanya.
5. Mwemeranye ijambo ryo guhagarika
Ni ingenzi kugira ijambo mwemeranyijeho rizakoreshwa guhagarika igihe umwe muri mwe yumvise atishimye. Iri jambo rikwiye kuba ridakunze gukoreshwa mu biganiro bisanzwe kugira ngo ritange ubutumwa butazuyaza.
6. Wambare uko wiyumva neza
Nta mpamvu yo kwambara imyenda idasanzwe niba utabishaka. Ibikenewe ni uko wambaye cyangwa wambaye ubusa mu buryo butuma wiyumva ufite icyizere.
7. Muganire
Kuganira no gutanga ibitekerezo ni ingenzi cyane. Umenya neza niba ibyo mukora byose bituma mwishimira umubano wanyu.
8. Ntugakabye
Gukorana imbaraga z’umurengera mu gitanda ntibisobanura urukundo rwiza. Iby’ingenzi ni uko ibyo mukora byose bibaha ibyishimo n’umutekano.
9. Koresha ibikoresho bigendanye n’ibyo mwemeranyije
Hari ibikoresho byinshi bishobora kwifashishwa, ariko ni ngombwa kubanza kubyumvikanaho kugira ngo mwembi mubyishimire nta muntu uhatirwa.
10. Menya ibyo ukunda
Kubanza kumenya ibyo ukunda bigufasha kuyobora neza mugenzi wawe mu buryo bwagutse kandi burushijeho gutanga ibyishimo.
11. Mwizerane
Ubushobozi bwo kuba intangarugero bushingira ku cyizere no kwiyumvamo ubushobozi bwo kuba intangarugero. Iyo wizeye ibyo ukora, bigufasha kugera ku ntego.
Iyo ibi byose byubahirijwe, urukundo rw’abashakanye ruba rwiza, rwuzuyemo ibyishimo n’umutekano, kandi rukarushaho gukomeza umubano wabo mu buryo bwimbitse.
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